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Being successful in a work environment takes more than just the right job-specific skills and attitude towards the job. There are also personal skills that you must develop in order to effectively handle the position and the people you work with. These are skills that don’t come easily to many people at first, but something that everyone should keep in mind and polish up when necessary:
According to some studies, the number one fear held by individuals is public speaking – it even beats out death! Speaking in front of a room full of people is one of those things that even the most confident person can have difficulty with. And so, even if you are a self-assured, charismatic person by nature, your charm and confidence may not translate easily into situations where you need to address your boss or coworkers in meetings or presentations. If you don’t have much experience with public speaking, try taking a class, and if that’s too much, practice in front of friends or even in front of the mirror. The more comfortable you become with getting up and listening to your own voice, the better you’ll be able to convey information to the people you work with – and win people over onto your side.
Dealing with people in the workplace isn’t always easy, but it’s important to always do so with tact. Losing your temper or making snide remarks are never good ways to approach situations, so its important that you learn to communicate with people diplomatically, whether this be someone that works for, above, or with you. If you tend to get worked up over stressful situations, take a breather before you speak to your coworkers. It’s important to treat everyone in a rational way and give them the respect they deserve.
There are a lot of egos circulating in any one office, and so in order to maintain a peaceful working environment, it’s important to keep yours in check. This is especially true if you are just starting out at a company. Fulfill the role that you were brought on to do – even if you sometimes don’t like it – and don’t expect everything to be handed to you. No one gets to come in and take charge right away. There are certain tasks that need to be done, and if they are given to you, it’s important to finish them out gracefully.
They don’t teach you everything in school, and certain skills don’t even come with experience unless you make it a point to practice them. Bear in mind these important personal skills while you’re at work, and they should take you far.
Until next time,
The Doostang Team